Me and Darko

Not a manual. A life.

Life with a dog you love

This is not about commands. It is about holidays you change, suitcases and leashes, a thought that never leaves you, and a hundred-pound dog who sleeps in front of the door until you come home. It is about what living together is really like.

"Don't you dare leave me."

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Invisible Bonds cover: Patrizia hugging Darko, German Shepherd

The book

Invisible Bonds — The story of Patrizia and Darko

A red ribbon to tell him apart among a dozen puppies. A fence cut through on the very first day. A broken bone at three months and two months of recovery behind the counter of a café. Two balls, because he never gives the first one back. A bidet instead of a water bowl. A seven-hour flight to Dubai, and a corner turned at the airport without saying goodbye.

Darko is a hundred-pound Alsatian German Shepherd, oversized, with a strong character and one rule: first he comes to you, then you may go to him. Patrizia is his mom. In these pages she tells nine years together: the dogs who came before, the house in the Castelli Romani near Rome, her children, a grief that does not go away, the move to Dubai, and a dog growing old "just a little slower".

It is not a manual. It is a true story. At the end of every chapter, three questions for you and your dog; at the back, a notebook to write your own.

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Darko as a two-month-old puppy
Darko at two months.
Darko lying on the deck chair
On the deck chair. My spot.
Darko on the sofa in Dubai
Dubai, an ordinary afternoon.
Darko with his two balls
Two balls. Never just one.

The series

Everything Revolves Around Him

Short books, one per theme, about life with a dog you love. They do not explain how to train him: they tell what living together is like, and what I learned in nine years with an oversized Alsatian German Shepherd. Each diary: a story, the practical part, "my list", and three questions for you.

Diary 2
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Holidays with Your Dog

Only where he can come too: how I look for a place, the traps of "pets allowed", what to pack, when to give up.

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Diary 3
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Always on My Mind

If I go out, if I leave, if it is hot, if he will not eat. Organizing life around him without erasing yourself.

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Diary 4
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A Dog with Character

Living with a dog who protects: guests, children, other dogs, the rules of the house.

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Diary 5
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When He Grows Old

Changing the pace, not asking him to be the dog he was, and enjoying him.

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Diary 6
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Before You Get a Dog

The honest questions to ask first. And one possible answer to abandonment: it does not exist.

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Diary 7
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At the Table with Him

Food, bowl, rules and the dog who begs. What I give him, what I do not, and why.

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Diary 8
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At the Vet Without Fear

Check-ups, fears, decisions and the courage to ask. How I learned not to panic.

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Diary 9
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A Big Dog and Children

Growing up together, house rules, trust. An oversized German Shepherd and the children around him.

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Diary 10
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Him and Other Dogs

Encounters, leash, character and respect. Darko cannot stand other dogs: how we live with it.

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Diary 11
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When the Time Comes

Getting ready, staying, and what remains. The diary I did not want to write.

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Invisible Bonds and the whole series. Everything I wrote about him, in one go.

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Darko

ID card of an oversized Alsatian German Shepherd

Name: Darko, from "dark", for his coat. Made a little more Italian.
Age: nine. Weight: about a hundred pounds, two inches taller than average.
Born: in the Castelli Romani, in a litter of twelve. Recognizable by the red ribbon.
Lives: between Rome and Dubai. Where she is, he is.

Drinks: only running water, from the bidet. The bowl has no charm.
Plays: with two balls, because he never gives the first one back.
Hates: the vacuum cleaner, thunderstorms, fireworks, other dogs.
Loves: the garden hose, the broom, children (he takes them into custody), the word "amore".
Rule: for the first five minutes, ignore him. First he comes to you, then you may go to him.
Pack leader: Chicco. To be protected: mom.

Maybe for Darko home is not an address. Maybe home is simply the place where he knows he has not been left behind.— Invisible Bonds, chapter 11
Beware of Dog sign: Darko is on guard
Billo, German Shepherd, in the garden
Billo, who came before.
Jack, West Highland terrier
Jack, eighteen pounds.
Darko at five months
Darko at five months.

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Now it's your turn

At the end of every chapter there are three questions. They are the same ones you find here. Answer the ones you like, in your own words: the best stories get published on this site, with your dog's name (and yours, if you want).

You don't need to write well. You need to write true.

If you are wondering whether your dog loves you, the answer is in the way he waits for you.— Patrizia

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